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This Could Be The Answer. Fuck love, at first sight, give me friends at first sight. Maybe it's the instant recognition that whatever you have going on in your head, the person in front of you has the same stuff. It can be the spark of connection, the mirrored smile from opposite sides of a room, the companionable silence in a library, the shared boredom at a train station, the startled laugh that brings that warm, fuzzy, pleasing satisfaction in the person that caused it. Joining forces for a shared objective despite being strangers, lending a hand in the right moment, or maybe it's someone else making the introductions, connecting two people that until now lived in close but separated quarters. There are a thousand ways to fall into a new friendship. Friendship at first sight. Adopting another person to be a part of your life, for who knows how long. Sharing a bus ride. Reading the same book and talking about it on the internet. Looking at someone and realizing once again: "oh, we could be friends." Incredible.  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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How could we possibly be anything else if not friends first and foremost? How could we possibly build anything on a ground with no proper foundation - a true friendship...
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Friendship and see if love blossoms.  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Friendship first is the way to go in my opinion. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Friends first equals a deeper connection "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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The instant connection as you both realize it "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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I think it is more lust at first sight than love at first sight. Lust at first sight has led me in the wrong direction in my past. I prefer going towards friendship first, it has more foundation for a relationship than the fleeting satisfaction one gets from just lust. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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ali This is another lovely piece "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Very true - and has happened to me a few times. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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A lot of souls cross our path. but certain souls are the reflection of our own. While you serve up long lists of what you seek, understand that what makes us whole and content is often a reflection of ourselves in another. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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5/27/2022 5:31 pm |
Friendship and see if love blossoms.
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Friendship first is the way to go in my opinion. Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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Friends first equals a deeper connection
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The instant connection as you both realize it
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I think it is more lust at first sight than love at first sight. Lust at first sight has led me in the wrong direction in my past. I prefer going towards friendship first, it has more foundation for a relationship than the fleeting satisfaction one gets from just lust. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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5/27/2022 4:30 am |
A lot of souls cross our path. but certain souls are the reflection of our own. While you serve up long lists of what you seek, understand that what makes us whole and content is often a reflection of ourselves in another.
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 "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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ali This is another lovely piece A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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Very true - and has happened to me a few times.
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