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DancingDom 74M
22476 posts
10/12/2021 2:37 pm

It is not unique. If they were not paying members, they probably can't even open and read them.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


lilwolfcub 63M
132 posts
10/12/2021 2:54 pm

i know how you are feeling on this as i wonder about it just as well
and yet here i am being a standard member agreeing with you on this


jdmhab 71M
1234 posts
10/12/2021 3:08 pm

Sometimes people have logged off and it still shows them as being on.


OlderMaster2018 73M
301 posts
10/12/2021 3:25 pm

Well subles6 ....I have to agree completely. Having been on here on and off since 2015 many have responded, but many more have not.
I seriously think that at least 90% on here are fake profiles . . and many of the other 10% are really not seriously look for what the say they are.

I've talked with some for a month or two, then moved to talking off here for longer. then they suddenly stop.
Recently talked with a 29 years old. . on here and off her since last July. She flooded me with sexy chat, what she was into, what we would do together when we meet, and sent nearly 20 very suggestive photos.
We agreed a hotel meet. . .but when I pushed to agree a date to meet. . . .she went quiet.
On Google Chat you can see that she reads my messages. . . but just no reply. She gave me no reason . . just no comment at all.

All I can do is back out and leave. Just puzzles me why she puts so much effort in to almost 3 months chat . . . all for nothing. . . .must be a fake, cold feet, or some other reason. . . . . . .I still have no idea why !

Had she been genuine. . . .we could have had great fun together x


Joeytx111 29F  
28 posts
10/12/2021 3:44 pm

ALT is really a terrible chat site! I know its not NEW news

I am glad your brought up the topic of IM. I am a Lez woman and naturally when I went on ALT IM and selected "Gay/Lez" tap and updated the search, guess what happened? ALT did bring up a list of women supposed to be Gay/Lez and when I started looking at their profile, well, most of these so called "Gay/Lez" women were looking for "Men"!!! I was like WTF!

So thats ALT for y;all

Enjoy today and all the days.


Greybrow 63M
625 posts
10/12/2021 3:51 pm

IM is terrible on this site. I have had it work maybe 2 times part of the problem is many won't even know you sent them an IM


Greybrow 63M
625 posts
10/12/2021 3:53 pm

I usually see if someone has a blog. If they do I leave a comment there for them. Of course if they don't check there blogs that also won't work


01Jackhammer 58M

10/12/2021 4:37 pm

Don't feel bad. I've wasted 40 points today just responding to incoming IMs. I turn on IM but I don't initiate first contact. I replied to their inquiries without any response back. I was polite and cordial but I'm starting to think the site might be using "Fembots" to drain your point reserve.
Although, I have had a few conversations with members, but most ended up be West African based scammers.
I'd become a gold member in a heartbeat if the site would do a better job policing itself. It needs a lot of improvement before I donate coin to a subpar product.

~Good Luck


peninsula_ 53M
76 posts
10/12/2021 5:45 pm

I think when you IM someone and they dont see the notification, that notification will stay available as long as you keep your IM window open. When you close your IM window, their notification will disappear like it never occurred. And some people have pursued others and spent all their points, then you IM them and they are just as perplexed as you are, albeit pointless and perplexed.

I have received IMs from people clearly against what my mouse-over profile states and I have no intention of using points to tell them. I'll slap the keyboard for a minute so they can see I am trying to reply "typing" then once more and close the window hoping they dont repeat.

__MAILBOX for comments here__


LordMandrakeJB 67M
110 posts
10/12/2021 6:07 pm

I think the IM developers on Alt left years ago and it has stayed in the dark ages. Even messages are clunky, causing me to set up a blog mailbox where people can leave me messages.


Masters_sl_a_v_e 55F
127 posts
10/12/2021 9:19 pm

I ignore IM since I don't feel it is worth spending the points being a standard member.

I have an auto reply set up as well since I do not always receive a message to view even though I receive an email letting me know there is a message.

Alt and Date Tribal Male are both a message that is why I am only a standard member since it is not worth spending the money on these sites.

I wish you well in finding playmates.


DancingDom 74M
22476 posts
10/14/2021 11:34 am

The only people I might message on this site are active on blogs. Either posting on their own or commenting on other blogs in addition to my own.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


likeithot19 62M
5742 posts
11/3/2021 7:26 am

Seems to only work at its own discretion



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