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saraLeeds 24F
1104 posts
9/28/2021 8:56 am
My BDSM Meanings


This is a very brief guide for both the experienced Sir/Master/Mistress and the wife//newbie sub/slave of just some of the abbreviations used under the BDSM banner, with particular interest the lifestyle i live, DD.

BDSM - Bondage, Discipline (or Domination) Sadism and Masochism
This is the heading all other Initials stem from.
A few practice all the above where as others tend specialise on their particular love.
Here are the once connected me.

HoH - Head of House
The head of the house/home is the patriarch all under his roof must obey, in some cases even visitors in the life.

TiH - Taken in Hand
A wife or are the ones need taking in hand.
Hand being the appropriate word.
Most TiH occurrences in the UK begin with a being naked, then a spanking, then depending on the digression, the belt, cane or both

Otk - Over the Knee
A simple abbreviation for a usual bare bottom spanking over his knee as a swift conclusion of a needed situation.

DD - Domestic Discipline (HD Home Discipline, as below but a more politically correct in I think)
A follow on from HoH and TiH incorporating both plus more on the sexual side.
Unlike other discipline DD is a mutually agreed way of home life benefit both parties and the recipient can always say no. No restraints are ever used so she can simply walk away.
DD follows the pattern of discipline not when a does something wrong or is generally naughty but could be so the Sir can show her body off or indeed just show off others in the room.
Also keep in mind most, if not all DD girls actually need the punishment be able go about their daily lives. Need can be the tingle she gets below or the pointing and throbbing of her nipples a spanking, thanking and soothing relieves.
can include humiliation, corner time, morning and bed time spanking, just a short sharp 20 slap spanking and not a prolonged session.
We say, long enough for tears yet short enough for no screams.
I touched briefly on the girls thanking and soothing.
These can come in any order but as a rule in my home, when composed the girl takes the slave position of kneeling and as her Sir walks towards her opens her mouth and sticks out her tongue to take in his cock.
Left in usually just to stiffness or he may decide to her face a cum.
A usual action if she has been punished.
Otherwise she is put in her favoured position, with us its on all fours and takes her Sir in where he wants it with the hope it hits her spot occasionally!

Anyone any thoughts of DD being HD instead?




saraLeeds 24F

9/28/2021 8:57 am

My thoughts alone, i may be well off the mark with them, xx


protection192 69M  
455 posts
9/28/2021 9:01 am

No you are right on the mark


saraLeeds replies on 9/28/2021 11:45 pm:
Thank you Sir, appreciated, xx

petiteandtight 43F  
138 posts
9/28/2021 9:16 am

beautiful picture


saraLeeds replies on 9/28/2021 11:46 pm:
I know Miss, it usually takes me a while to find a phot to match my script, this was the second one and i was so envious of her, lucky girl. xx

Ardri58 65M  
53 posts
10/2/2021 3:41 am

An excellent guide !!


saraLeeds replies on 10/2/2021 12:30 pm:
Thank you Sir, much appreciated, xx

ridermantel 68M

11/11/2021 9:44 am

Lovely image of OTK. I like your concise guide.



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