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pac369 64F  
10538 posts
11/26/2021 6:53 pm

Last Read:
12/4/2023 8:35 pm

Being played!


See below...

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


pac369 64F  
12699 posts
11/26/2021 7:00 pm

Because somebody goes out of their way to take advantage of you, is beyond a shitty feeling.

Especially, as you don't even realize it's happening... Where you think you are having a normal, not to graphic, conversation about the lifestyle and blogs...

It's only afterwards that you see their profile disappear, and all comments on your blog are gone. That you realized what even happened...

Talk about slick! And all to get off is how it appears. Thanks for making it harder for the next Dom, making me feel like a fool, and again shattering my trust talking with new Dom's!

You should be quite proud of yourself, you piece of shit!

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


pac369 64F  
12699 posts
11/26/2021 7:02 pm

What a asshole...

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


Imgood117 42M
12 posts
11/26/2021 7:24 pm

It's hard to trust


pac369 replies on 11/26/2021 7:27 pm:
Especially when you keep getting burned!

Boggles2001 61M  
385 posts
11/26/2021 7:41 pm

On behalf of all the REAL doms out there i’m sorry…it happens…far far more than it fucking should do …as we all know….
Somebody will make you laugh again….and then they will reap the benefit….smiles…x


pac369 replies on 11/27/2021 5:52 am:
Thanks Boggles...

I appreciate your kind words. It's hard embarrassing myself.
But I need the input to try and prevent it from happening again...

OldJeakel 72M
377 posts
11/26/2021 7:59 pm

We all deal with that kind of crap, on here and on other sites. It takes a lot before I will even think about trusting anyone from these sites. For some reason I seem to attract the scammers and fakes, they are like flies or roaches crawling out of the woodwork


pac369 replies on 11/27/2021 5:55 am:
I hear you OJ...

It's easy to spot the obvious ones. It's the one's who go out of their way, almost like a challenge, to humble you, that are really hard to deal with.

There're not many worse things than feeling like a fool!

Suzy_Que 53T
1242 posts
11/26/2021 8:08 pm

pac, I'm so sorry this happened to you. I can imagine that it's hard to separate the posers from the actual Doms when it's all taking place online, and I'm sure I would fall for the fakes more easily than you.

I hope the right one comes along soon for you, and that there will be clear signs that he is real and he is the one.

Hugs,
Suzy


pac369 replies on 11/27/2021 6:01 am:
Thank you so much Suzy!

It's a humbling morning for me. It's been a long time since someone has made me feel so bad about my judgement... I only thought we were chatting. While he's dismantling any way for him to be visible...

Wow... Why someone would even go to all that trouble is amazing to me. With all the porn and hook-up sites around...

fuzzy0118 64M  
88 posts
11/27/2021 2:55 am

everyone needs to laugh


pac369 replies on 11/27/2021 6:02 am:
Your right fuzzy!

After I shed my foolish tears, I will work on that!

Persephone2020 75F
57 posts
11/27/2021 2:58 am

Do not give this feckless fool the power to destroy your faith
A guy’s rejection is God’s protection

I love reading your posts

Happy Holiday season


pac369 replies on 11/27/2021 6:04 am:
Thank you Persephone!

It's easier said than done... But I am working on it...

EcuriousNNJ 67M
575 posts
11/27/2021 3:55 am

Why does this have to happen to the nice people, im sorry pac, but do not give this guy a second more of your thoughts. Hope you find the Dom you are looking for


pac369 replies on 11/27/2021 6:31 am:
Thank you NNJ!

I wish I knew why? You let your guard down for a second... And wham! your fucked over...

I am trying to forget the encounter ever happened... But will probably take me a few days..

robj1956 67M
1665 posts
11/27/2021 4:14 am

Pac, this is no reflection on you, or that you are gullible, the only way we're going to find connections is to take some risks. This guy just vanished for some reason of his own, has nothing to do with you at all, he completely vanished from the site. Shake it off and carry on, I always enjoy reading your posts, you have a lot to offer.


pac369 replies on 11/27/2021 6:10 am:
Thank you rob!

Your words are appreciated more than you know. I know in my head you are right. But my heart is telling me how vulnerable I really am. And how a short encounter should not hurt like this... But it does! And always will when someone goes out of their way to make you feel like a idiot..

IsoOnlineSub7 65M/56F
1543 posts
11/27/2021 4:46 am

Lot's of limp dick douchebags out there. Sorry you had to deal with another one of them. Now I would never disappear after talking filth with you.


pac369 replies on 11/27/2021 6:28 am:
Thanks Iso!

Just to be clear, I did not talk "filth" with him, or anyone else for that matter. We talked lifestyle generalities and if he liked or didn't like something...

I am sure it's easy to imagine me having graphic, explicit, conversations with everybody. But nothing is further from the truth.. My blog is where I express my inner thoughts of being a nasty girl...

The "filth" is what I share with my Dom. Not someone I just started chatting with..

We have chatted online a lot Iso. And I don't doubt you are trying to make me feel better. And I really appreciate it!

I just wanted to set the record straight..

likesmatures 55M
4814 posts
11/27/2021 6:54 am

So sorry my dear..i just wanna reach out and hug you


pac369 replies on 11/27/2021 7:03 am:
Thanks likes!

Plzrmeister 67M  
10294 posts
11/27/2021 7:24 am

I'm probably thinking the same thing a lot of people reading your blog are thinking ..... "Welcome to the club." I'll bet the vast majority of us are in the 'Been there - Done that' camp.

It sucks .... period. I don't understand people who do this.
Not interested, or no longer interested? Just say so - Don't fucking vanish!Like you said in another blog .... WTF is wrong with people?


Make Women Female Again


IsoOnlineSub7 65M/56F
1543 posts
11/27/2021 8:21 am

Pac said: I just wanted to set the record straight..

OK, pac, message is crystal. I will try and keep my filthy mouth quiet and not accuse you of being constantly filthy. I will try.


pac369 replies on 11/27/2021 12:00 pm:
Ohh Iso...

Thank you!

But please don't change who you are!

tahimikbayani 53M
8008 posts
11/27/2021 8:25 am

Pretty crazy that people (cause you never know who is behind the computer) would take the time to waste another person's time just to jerk off, etc.

Such a shame...


pac369 replies on 11/27/2021 12:01 pm:
Thank you tkb!

I could not agree more..

ADOMISs_Colleen 46F  
167 posts
11/27/2021 8:43 am

So sorry Pac369, you are such a genuine lady,
takes a real asshole to betray you.
Don't lose trust in all, just that one,
and don't stop sharing your mind and heart,
it is too precious.

happily collared, branded la kajira of MASTER ADOMIS4U2


pac369 replies on 11/27/2021 12:02 pm:
Thank you colleen!

Your words are most appreciated...

jenny14 75T  
90273 posts
11/27/2021 11:15 am

pac

I too am VERY sorry to hear this and an sending you a warm hug!

Some people are just ass- holes with NO consideration for others!!


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


pac369 replies on 11/27/2021 12:02 pm:
Thank you Jenny!

Back at you...

rosaenaluin 65F
10951 posts
11/27/2021 11:16 am

I am very sorry this happen to you.
Just an other very selfish, selfcentred man, not dominant material for sure!

it happen soo many times to me, on this Dutch site... i dont even care to count how many sick fucks did get off while i thought we were talking honestly about SM/ D/s.

To me, they are all wankers, untill proven other wise! In their behaviour.
Touch love! baby!


pac369 replies on 11/27/2021 12:04 pm:
Thanks rosa!

Much appreciated words from you. Because I know you have gone many of the same struggles I have...

Greybrow 63M
625 posts
11/27/2021 12:04 pm

Pac know you have a lot of support. Stay true to yourself and the arses can go f* themselves


pac369 replies on 11/27/2021 12:07 pm:
Thanks Grey!

I do feel the support.
The blogging community is wonderful!

drmgirl622 68F  
26010 posts
11/27/2021 12:32 pm

There are those that just love to play on the kindness of others. It's a reality that we, unfortunately, face at one time or another. I so agree that the trust factor goes way down at that point.


pac369 replies on 11/27/2021 3:47 pm:
Yes drmgirl you are right...

My trust factor is way down right now..

Dave54321 61M
2701 posts
11/27/2021 6:33 pm

Sorry to hear you've had to deal with this crap pac.
As others have said, to find what we seek we have to put ourselves
out there. But it is hard when people let us down.

While there is some good people on here, there does seem to be a lot
of A**holes.

Big hugs - stay strong.


pac369 replies on 11/27/2021 7:03 pm:
Thanks so much Dave!

I am staying strong though... no matter what..

chameleon63 61M
203 posts
11/27/2021 8:29 pm

Hey pac, I'm just going to reinforce what Robj1956 said;
This is not a reflection of you, but of their poor character and decisions.
Deception is an affront to our internal compass, our value system. Who ever it was, look at the revelation as having saved you some possible serious harm.
You know our thoughts are with you!


pac369 replies on 11/28/2021 8:44 am:
Thanks so much chameleon!
Your words are important to me. And I don't take them lightly...

Thanks again...

ExNameForUse 53F
5715 posts
11/30/2021 1:02 pm

Just read it and it made me sick.. I am so sorry, dear Pac.. nothing I could say what you already dont know or others havent said..
Why do people do such things will remain mistery to me forever... thinking of you, Pac.


pac369 replies on 11/30/2021 8:06 pm:
Thank you so much Ex!

I try and think this was on him and not me... Nonetheless, it's hard not to take it personally...

Thanks again...


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