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Kitcatshadow1 57F
269 posts
11/24/2021 11:10 am
Going back to basics......


So, those who know me, know that I turned to BDSM after losing my hubby. It has been 5 years this year, and although I enjoyed the lifestyle. But now, I have found a vanilla man, who I feel I can give my heart to, one that I can once again allow to love me. All the BDSM relationships I have had, was always with Sadists, all I needed then was pain, and it worked for me. Now I am ready to move on, ready to let a man love me for who and what I am, and in return, give my love. Does this mean that I will give up on BDSM, no, but gently into the night I will go, we all have a lot to teach each other in relationships, and God help this man, kitten has a whole new world to show him!

Kitcatshadow1 57F
507 posts
11/24/2021 11:11 am

Wiggles her ass, tosses her long hair, and gives an evil grin!


submale1955 68M
460 posts
11/24/2021 11:36 am

Best Wishes.


ridermantel 68M

11/24/2021 11:37 am

Love makes the world go round, not pain, unless you need a little bit from time to time. There is nothing wrong with a vanilla man as long as he genuinely loves you and you love him. My day has come and gone. It was what it was. It is what it is. These days it makes me happy to see other people happy. And I mean that. I don't see much happiness on this site. And if some people found happiness it has been short lived. But there are the exceptions. This site is one of several sites all owned by the same group. They share info. I have no expectations of finding anyone. I am here to blog. That's it. You made a comment about my blog a month ago. I wish you good luck and good fortune and I hope it works out all for the best.


Fuckedhard_m 59M
261 posts
11/24/2021 11:44 am

Good luck with your new love. Mr Vanilla will love all the kittycat sprinkles on top❤️


Kitcatshadow1 57F
507 posts
11/24/2021 11:52 am

    Quoting ridermantel:
    Love makes the world go round, not pain, unless you need a little bit from time to time. There is nothing wrong with a vanilla man as long as he genuinely loves you and you love him. My day has come and gone. It was what it was. It is what it is. These days it makes me happy to see other people happy. And I mean that. I don't see much happiness on this site. And if some people found happiness it has been short lived. But there are the exceptions. This site is one of several sites all owned by the same group. They share info. I have no expectations of finding anyone. I am here to blog. That's it. You made a comment about my blog a month ago. I wish you good luck and good fortune and I hope it works out all for the best.
I need to say this, of all the Doms I have played with, I have not found them here. I found them on FET. As to the gent I a now involved with, this is new to both of us, both of us have lost our partners, and both are ships lost at sea. Him being vanilla, is a slight problem, yet from the start he knew what I was into, and being with him, I do so some fetishes I can play on, even if they are tamer than what I am used to. Every relationship is give and take, and being a lady who can adjust to anything, I will do it for love!


Kitcatshadow1 57F
507 posts
11/24/2021 12:01 pm

    Quoting  :

Thank you, and I know it will, this is not the first man who tried to win me, but he was the most humble one! And that stole my heart!


darkness567 67M
368 posts
11/24/2021 12:03 pm

Can only wish you well and good luck.


ridermantel 68M

11/24/2021 12:04 pm

    Quoting Kitcatshadow1:
    I need to say this, of all the Doms I have played with, I have not found them here. I found them on FET. As to the gent I a now involved with, this is new to both of us, both of us have lost our partners, and both are ships lost at sea. Him being vanilla, is a slight problem, yet from the start he knew what I was into, and being with him, I do so some fetishes I can play on, even if they are tamer than what I am used to. Every relationship is give and take, and being a lady who can adjust to anything, I will do it for love!
Do It For Love! Right!


HerJourney21 58F

11/24/2021 12:05 pm

Wishing you all the best !


Dave54321 61M
2702 posts
11/24/2021 4:07 pm

Wonderful to hear, wishing you & your new man all the best.
I'm sure between you, you'll find the right mix of kink & vanilla
to suit you both. All the best, very happy for you.
Dave54321


pac369 64F  
12699 posts
11/24/2021 4:09 pm

That's wonderful Kit!

Give that vanilla lifestyle and man hell!!

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


grywolf2 73M
3060 posts
11/24/2021 5:46 pm

He may prove easy to turn.

Perhaps tamer might make for the perfect balance.


likeithot19 62M
5883 posts
11/25/2021 5:35 am

wishing you all the best


DancingDom 74M
22530 posts
11/26/2021 1:44 pm

I wish the best for you and him. Ease him into it.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


ExNameForUse 53F
5715 posts
12/5/2021 3:27 am

Just ran into your post and it has really warmed my heart reading the love is not dead yet... best wishes to your love and to both of you with each other!


Kitcatshadow1 replies on 12/5/2021 7:55 am:
I am so glad, yes, it is hard to find, but, it is possible..... Hugs xxx


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