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CatCityLady 63F
32 posts
7/31/2021 6:44 pm
When did everything become a chore?


Yes, I have been away from the world of ALT for many years. What has changed is how overly complicated things seem be. Just the simple task of trying meet someone for lunch becomes a Q&A about what the future may hold. If I knew what the future held I wouldn't be on ALT I'd be on TLC with my own show!!!

Yern2lic 67M
1337 posts
7/31/2021 7:34 pm

Great blog!👍


drmgirl622 68F  
26003 posts
7/31/2021 7:39 pm

It seems everyone has an agenda nowadays.....


bimom4taboo 53F
2038 posts
7/31/2021 8:08 pm

yes your so right. somehow i feel when women can do as they please now it messed thing up a bit. we remember how it was when we were younger. i sure do just my thoughts on it


1uncommondom 77M

7/31/2021 8:32 pm

We live in a society where
truth an honesty are no
longer absolute but are
measured by their reliability.
Honor, integrity an ethics
are referred to as the old days.


timetoshare13 62M
120 posts
7/31/2021 8:43 pm

You are right on about the agenda it seems at least here


Innit99 53M

7/31/2021 11:11 pm

lol, you hit that one on the head


Innit99 53M

7/31/2021 11:12 pm

if i knew what the future held, id buy stocks


lookagain12342 63M

8/1/2021 2:36 am

cant even get a luch date without filling out the proper forms now


Plzrmeister 67M  
10291 posts
8/1/2021 5:29 am

I 'get' what you're saying and I agree with you - to a point.

What I think a lot of people are doing is trying to determine, on the front end, whether there is enough compatibility & potential for a future relationship beyond a 'lunch'.

Agreed. Going to lunch, etc. is an attempt to determine that compatibility & potential, isn't it? Of course it's 1,000 times more personal and undoubtedly more productive - that's hard to argue against.

Yet I do understand people doing the upfront 'vetting' to determine whether or not that lunch is even worth it. I'd wager you've chatted with people and have determined from that chat that there's no way you'd care to spend an hour having lunch with them.

Make Women Female Again


likesmatures 55M
4814 posts
8/1/2021 8:45 am

I agree esp from the women's side. My experiences have been negative at best.

Instead of seeing this in a bdsm context they see it as a relationship one. Like omg!!!

So the male is put under the spotlight as she looks for flaws. He cant just be a sub..

He is judged as relationship material..

And it gets worse as the woman ages. I actually like older women,men. But im 52...anyone 58-62 is already in that retirement zone..

They are looking for that retirement relationship..it gets worse at 62 + and they are actually retired.

Try working a 40 hr work week while they have nothing but time on their hands..



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