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SirMasterCal 53M
61 posts
3/28/2023 4:35 pm

Last Read:
4/19/2023 2:11 pm

Do you think Alt would be more succesful and attract real people if it was free with a voluntary fee

so do you think it would be better here if Alt was free and attracted real people to join with a voluntary membership payment of say £5 a month?
YES
NO


MtRushmore1970 53M
28 posts
6/25/2023 7:31 pm

    Quoting The1BlackBeauty:
    Ive been on this site since 1999, so 23 years.

    They had a program called IceBreakers for years, it granted single women with photos and accounts that were opened for at least 3 weeks free gold upgrade. they would send out icebreaker messages to new members who matched their Cupid list

    They stopped the program about 2 years ago and gave me one last free year as a good will gesture for having been a member for so long.

    But, i did advise them I’d never pay for the service and most women will not pay for this service and that will decrease the number of quality women available to the paying members.

    So, i log on every now and then, and occasionally upload a few new photos. But, since i cant read profiles, I rarely interact with anyone
I'm sure the primary reason they stopped doing that was because scammers would exploit the system, create female profiles, and get all the perks females got. Believe me, I use AdultFriendFinder (Alt sister site) and females (and couples profiles) get free gold accounts after a certain criteria was met. The legitimate women hang out in the blogs and the chatrooms. Certain men create couples profiles just so they don't have to pretend they're females all the time.


MtRushmore1970 53M
28 posts
6/25/2023 7:25 pm

If this site were 100% free, it really wouldn't change the overall functionality and the quality of real users versus scammers. In fact, the site would have tons of ads. I don't think anyone would have the tolerance to sit through a 30 second ad or a series of four thirty second ads before viewing profiles.


nudeslaveboy4u 68M

6/13/2023 6:27 pm

Colllarme.com was free.
Fetster.com is free.
Recon.com is free.
Alt.com cost me twenty bucks a month. I don't get many Mistresses and realized that if it was free I would get more Mistresses who could see me.


MtRushmore1970 53M
28 posts
6/3/2023 8:04 pm

It would be quite successful if it wasn't riddled with glitches.


TeallaRose 39F
183 posts
5/27/2023 10:53 am

It also need to ban the scammers ips that saying they are in the country but really from thier. Be little strict get rid of the swinger thing it’s not d/s it was clean back ok the old days many meet I meet my first masters here. I have no problem menu are shy these days. But people have to get out the comfort zone be them self don’t hide who you are fine yo show a little bit if you want to attract how you carry it show full photos and your natraul self not photoshop. Gentlemen will come out when real lady’s show up.


TeallaRose 39F
183 posts
5/27/2023 10:49 am

To attract real should go by up verification photos are then a lot sites do it they do it here maybe make verification in different ways like get did.


TeallaRose 39F
183 posts
5/27/2023 10:46 am

Women use to be free but they should allow people to look at profiles atleast have few messages per day like they use to. The price has been bet high since forever maybe just I feel if they want get it going some sites only 5 to 6 dollars. I use to pay for old put some people don’t respect even if you are gold.


mollenda 29F

4/25/2023 8:34 am

In my opinion, the most valuable part is still free, which is blogs. Only here and not on the chat you can meet people who share their true emotions.


solelicker12133 71M
24 posts
4/22/2023 12:04 pm

Yes, but it will never happen. I understand there needs to be some restrictions but they've goe way too far.


Aislin 39F  
8605 posts
4/15/2023 4:51 am

What do you see active Lately on this site other than a bunch of Old People in the chats talking about Gardening and Food. Then Read the blogs, No more active bloggers posting any Real Time dynamic's.

Yeah why waste your money. They should charge them for using their Chats and Blogs.

When it's free it becomes a huge Lost.


I am aroused by my own darkness and there is no cure.


The1BlackBeauty 66F  
1 post
4/12/2023 1:51 pm

Ive been on this site since 1999, so 23 years.

They had a program called IceBreakers for years, it granted single women with photos and accounts that were opened for at least 3 weeks free gold upgrade. they would send out icebreaker messages to new members who matched their Cupid list

They stopped the program about 2 years ago and gave me one last free year as a good will gesture for having been a member for so long.

But, i did advise them I’d never pay for the service and most women will not pay for this service and that will decrease the number of quality women available to the paying members.

So, i log on every now and then, and occasionally upload a few new photos. But, since i cant read profiles, I rarely interact with anyone

...There is Only1BlackBeauty...This MISTRESS Is...The1BlackBeauty ...


SnowBitch 55F
11 posts
4/12/2023 10:49 am

Alt has burned too many bridges to recover imho


Craftmaster1952 68M

4/10/2023 2:53 pm

Alt does care it all about the money I have use this site on and off for over 20 yrs and the Scammers have completely taken over the site i was recieve over100 messages all profiles are fake all ask for gift cards or money running the sweetheart scam. This is the worse i have ever seen it.Alt needs to but something in Place to verfity The people other then the fucking credit card and not charge the people who are real to be verifty


Sub4Goodtimes 67M

4/10/2023 5:53 am

Site full of fake/scammers and alt doesn't care because they put their money up-front. Hard to imagine so many of them have so much money to burn.


NoNonsense_Dom 70M  
1527 posts
4/7/2023 7:29 am

Simply put it should be made harder to join the site by way increased security protocols. But ALT should also upgrade it's own security to prevent or at least minimise the chance of hackers breaking in again. I have been on this site just on 15 years, and there has been 3 hacks that I know of. If they want us to pay, then make the place safer for our details first.


ImpatientDom 74M

4/6/2023 8:31 am

The key is that there must be some kind of quality control as it were. Requiring a driver's license or some other ID would help. Or the ALT admins could do the same Image searches members we do and quickly find the stolen profiles. And as we, the members, find fakes, we must report them and get them off site. As it is, the wonder is not that you find a fake, but that you find someone who isn't,


MisterJorrox56 68M

4/5/2023 7:25 am

I don't object to paying a subscription, however, I stopped doing so when I became aware that women were given free gold accounts, that was some years ago now and things may have changed. That notwithstanding, I now have a reduced income and my Covid wrecked finances do not allow me to pay the current fee.

Good enough is not good enough; try again, and try harder!


Mr_X75 49M
72 posts
4/5/2023 6:41 am

To weed out the fake accounts everyone needs to be verified. Submitting your drivers license and picture would put an end to it. There are successful sites that your free to communicate on like fetlife for example. If you want to view videos, you need to pay a subscription and many do to support it and keep it free. Their community is growing by the day.

Another option for revenue is ads. Look at Facebook for example. There is not subscription and they are a giant in social media, so they are proof it can work. Even Facebook has fake accounts, but that can be eliminated by getting verified.


DingandBelle 52M/47F

4/3/2023 8:28 am

Do you think Alt would be more successful and attract real people if it was free with a voluntary fee

I think that in order for ALT to become more successful, the site needs to figure out what it is here for.

Personals…….

We joined hoping to chat with and meet people with similar interests, fetishes and outlooks and if that is the purpose of the site it fails massively.

The site does not attract enough members and ones that do join leave very quickly because the site (not the members) is confusing, frustrating and unwelcoming.

As a paying member I would expect that our profile could be viewed by “all” other members, it cannot.

I would expect that if I messaged a member, free or otherwise, they should be able to read the message and reply if they wish to do so, they cannot always.

I would expect to see that my messages were received and be informed when they were read, I cannot unless I purchase a further addon.

I can send a gift to a complete stranger I have not spoken with to allow this to happen. Use a points system it is very difficult to find information for and no one truly understands or if I have run out of points I can purchase some…..on top of my membership fee which is a waste of money anyway….

Added to that there are so few members within 200 miles of where we live, many of those members are looking for different things and not a couple, of the ones who are looking for a couple many of our interests do not align and of the remaining half dozen or so, three are owned, two are called Jeremy and the sixth one passed away without cancelling their membership.

Maybe it it isn’t personals? Maybe the Magazine and blogs are its mainstay and attraction?

Really? I regularly post on the Blog and have hundreds of views. I regularly post stories, articles, have posted Poems and other things. Some get no views, some get lots of views, every now and again someone will vote (but its rare) and even more rare someone might comment. If they are what te site is about, it fails massively there too.

Maybe it’s the IM?

The IM works sometimes and doesn’t work sometimes. When it does work I get messages from people who have not read our profile and want to know if Belle likes younger cocks, If I want to suck their cock or if I want to show them my cock….You three know who you are…. And if I am chatting to more than one person I have to have different windows open for each conversation and it is so easy to miss or lose a message. Added to that many members run out of points and cannot chat there anyway.
Another fail.

So what is the answer? Introduce verification for all members. Introduce a fee that gives you access to the whole site, stop trying to pick the pockets of your paying members, fix the bugs in the IM, make the interface more user friendly and put long term profit before short term profit because if you don’t, there will be no one left to pay fees at all.

And in case you were wondering, when our year is up, were leaving unless some drastic improvements are made that bring more members here and allow us to interact.

Hugs X


whiskyjack2020 46M
1 post
4/3/2023 2:27 am

This site is infested with scammers, frauds, liars and kiddie game players!! Oh and there's the social media twits that just like to collect friends like the little children that collect coloured marbles!
This site is a joke! I'm not renewing my membership here!


slaveRam4MsM 42M
178 posts
4/1/2023 9:32 pm

Here more fake profile.. if join amount 5 , it's create money people fake account. already many people ask money


ScorpiusCT 74M  
1 post
4/1/2023 3:44 pm

It would allow scammers to create even more accounts. They can already create multiple accounts on multiple websites. Free would allow them to create so many accounts that finding a real partner would be practically impossible.


SirMasterCal replies on 4/2/2023 4:33 pm:
totaly the opposite in my experience..they target site's were people give there details easily willing to pay ..And yuou'll have a hard job finding a real female here

JayneIsBad 63T
1 post
4/1/2023 7:37 am

The scammers and fakes would increase with at voluntary fee, because they wouldn't pay it. I doubt there is a way to get more real people. Charge a required fee and you decide on an amount that won't drive really interested people away and will still be high enough that most scammers and fakes won't pay it. But then the total number of people might go down overall. THought they mioght be more likely to be active.

Jayne


WildlyLost3 47M
1 post
3/31/2023 7:34 pm

Having a little bit of a barrier to sign up closes the door to some scammers. Good Chat in app and good reporting/policing are what is needed to improve this or a similar site. Responsive, uncensored chat that eliminates any suggestion to go off site, then good reporting tools when people are scammers, and quick review and restriction of reported scammers.


newmaleslave2020 53M  
19 posts
3/31/2023 4:02 pm

think this place is done,much B.S fakes on here!


SirMasterCal replies on 4/1/2023 1:06 pm:
its 99.9% Fakes here

aldompdx 62M
1074 posts
3/31/2023 10:41 am

Fortunately, ALT is the way it is, with many fraud & scam filters built in, for free members. The best filter is the ALT I.Q. test -- if you are not smart enough to figure out how to get things done for free, then you are insufficiently interested in me, you are insufficiently motivated to invest your time to actually communicate with me, you are lethargic, and you are unworthy of my time.

Via my handle ALDOMPDX, I communicate on the usual daught calm places.


SirMasterCal replies on 4/1/2023 1:05 pm:
Agree ..if they cant set up a blog msg box they're thick

Coldmem 49M
1 post
3/31/2023 3:59 am

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rosaenaluin 65F
10952 posts
3/30/2023 12:51 pm

I did not vote, because i dont know.

i think, monitoring this site, more, could make a difference....

But, just like fet, the owner there, let all kind of dangerous folks on the site, creating groups like predators, if you read their profiles, it is one big violation of anything SM, or D/s orientated....
and the money making girls, too... ofcourse, like they are here, too


SirMasterCal replies on 3/30/2023 3:31 pm:
perhaps if the site stopped creating fake profiles itself it would help 😂

SirMasterCal 53M
404 posts
3/30/2023 11:39 am

some of my answers are being denied to you but trying to reply to all


binkinky 59M
32 posts
3/30/2023 12:04 am

    Quoting Dirtydrew331a:
    Don't think it needs to be %100 free but you should be able to reply if someone messages you.
Chat doesn't seem to work, they want points for chats? Take my points after a chat that actually happened.


Daniellelv 57T  
11 posts
3/29/2023 10:43 pm

m'm not hardly on since they took my gold cause I can't message anyone that I'm interested in whether it's free or not as long as I can chat


Hiddermiss 43M
10 posts
3/29/2023 10:04 pm

It would be more successful if it just collected and sold data like other sites


Dirtydrew331a 37M
10 posts
3/29/2023 9:41 pm

Don't think it needs to be %100 free but you should be able to reply if someone messages you.


SirMasterCal 53M
404 posts
3/29/2023 1:38 pm

    Quoting OldJeakel:
    These sites are magnets for scammers and fakes
    I alternate between this site and fetish, I actually prefer fetish because of the free chat and being able to actually read profiles
Exactly free to see profiles and chat..


SirMasterCal 53M
404 posts
3/29/2023 1:35 pm

    Quoting  :

it definately needs a purge of all scammers and fakes..and people to gain truus..whilst fakes are allowed theres no trust and people wont pay


SirMasterCal 53M
404 posts
3/29/2023 1:30 pm

    Quoting looking4fat:
    It would certainly attract more members. But successful? No way. How many successful businesses give their product away for free? And how many people would pay if they did not HAVE to?

    It might be possible if Alt decided to allow ads. But then we'd have to fight our way through hundreds of pop-up windows every time we signed on. And most of those would be from porno-scam sites.

    Dream on.
so why are fab and fet so successful and alt such a failure?
in a year the most people i've seen online is 82.
theres a reason why its all old men here cybering...young people see through the fake profiles straight away and leave.
you rarely see a real female on here yet in fab the chat rooms are full to capacuty most of the time
people will voluntariy contribute to genuine and real


OldJeakel 72M
377 posts
3/29/2023 9:24 am

These sites are magnets for scammers and fakes
I alternate between this site and fetish, I actually prefer fetish because of the free chat and being able to actually read profiles


likesmatures 55M
4815 posts
3/29/2023 4:27 am

You mean like fetlife???

Honestly the only thing keeping alt alive is the fact that fet isn't a personals site...

And I suspect alt runs a lot of its sister sites through south east asia...

Where fetishes are less taboo.

To answer your question...

Yes..I would use alt more if it was free...I would provide more content as well


looking4fat 72T

3/29/2023 3:08 am

It would certainly attract more members. But successful? No way. How many successful businesses give their product away for free? And how many people would pay if they did not HAVE to?

It might be possible if Alt decided to allow ads. But then we'd have to fight our way through hundreds of pop-up windows every time we signed on. And most of those would be from porno-scam sites.

Dream on.

My "gurl name" is Kate Coxuker. It is who i am and what i do.



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