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uncommon1 66M  
624 posts
6/3/2023 4:32 pm
Free will and human rights as a submissive. (reply)


Most Dominants want their submissive to give up their free will. Some want them to give up their human rights.
But in the BDSM world, this is really just an illusion.


BDSM is not about controlling anyones
free will or their human rights.
It is not simply I command and you obey!
Dominance and submission is a constant
push and pull between willing partners.
It isn't a taking or giving up, it is a power
exchange. We are equal partners but
opposite halves of the circle.
First an foremost, a Dominant and a
submissive are people in a relationship.
Where each is finding fulfillment of their
need to please or their need to be pleased.
The giving and taking in a BDSM relationship
isn't much different than a vanilla relationship.
The difference is in the acts each dynamic crafts
for themselves.


uncommon1 66M  
1320 posts
6/3/2023 4:35 pm

The only illusion is if you believe every couple,
every leather family and every plural dynamic
structures their acts the same way.


_hazine_ 43F  
79 posts
6/3/2023 4:55 pm

You should be the speaker for the Lobby chats as they seem to never have a truthful topic of real facts.

awesome post and thank you


* Gorean ideals are like Total Power Exchanges. He is master and I am slave. *


uncommon1 replies on 6/3/2023 5:12 pm:
Alt is just a hobby BDSM
site. For those that want a kinky
weekend sport.

_hazine_ 43F  
79 posts
6/3/2023 6:46 pm

It has changed since I joined this, I know but it is very nice to at least have a great topic conversation. Thank you

* Gorean ideals are like Total Power Exchanges. He is master and I am slave. *



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