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softrayne 56F
1876 posts
9/1/2021 3:33 pm

Last Read:
7/13/2023 8:14 pm

POP, POP, POP


*blow,pop,laugh,rayne*

softrayne 56F
3088 posts
9/1/2021 3:34 pm

As far as I am concerned, balloons have 2 purposes in their life. One, to be festive and pretty. Come to think of it, that is one of my purposes in life too, but I digress. Two, to be popped. By me. For the laughter and delight that ensues. Who doesn’t need more fun in their life? For me, balloons are like potato chips. Or orgasms-who wants to have just one, when multiples are so much more fun.

I think that when people see a balloon being blown up, they fall into two categories. Those that are fearful of the noise/impending pop, and those that get excited by it. Or maybe there are some who have no reaction at all? I personally love the anticipation of it. Anticipation as kink. Not knowing exactly when the explosion is going to happen, but knowing that it will. Fear vs. Excitement.

How would you react if You saw someone blowing up a balloon oh so slowly? I know it would drive me bat shit crazy, what with my patience issues and all. Would you cover your ears? Beg them to blow faster!!!! Blow slower? Prolonging it. Ask if you could pop it? Throw caution to wind and just run over and pop it regardless? (also a me thing)

If you’d like to go further down this rabbit hole-balloon popping could be seen as a metaphor for le petite mort. Orgasms, control and edging, baby.
When he blows that balloon up, oh so slowly, making you beg him to blow faster, blow harder, get to the pop/orgasm. Could begging could be construed as a way to wrest some form of control over the situation? How you want to be fucked. How quickly you want to balloon to pop.

How big can you get it with out the explosion? How close can you get to the edge without cumming? What if he blows the balloon up, and then God forbid, let some of the air out deflating it? (That’s just rude) then blows it back up again? Lather, rinse, repeat. Is that a form of edging?

What if I get to blow the balloon up myself? I am then in charge of the pop/orgasm. Is it masturbatory? Is it something I like being in control of? Or is it better when he is in charge? Both have their advantages.

In conclusion, this is probably a kink or fetish that more people have than perhaps I first thought. And while I don’t fetishize balloons to the point where I can’t have sex without them, nor do I sexualize the actual balloon itself; it’s more along the lines of, let’s be a saucy wench (all for it) and cause some trouble. Let’s let the naughty girl out to play. I think it would be a pleasure to walk into a room filled with balloons, and see what sort of shenanigans he and I can get up to.

So, should anyone here ever invite me to a party, no balloons are safe. You’ve been warned.

*Disclaimer-Many balloons were harmed in the making and research of this blog post*


drmgirl622 68F  
25880 posts
9/1/2021 4:02 pm

I promise to hide the balloons if we ever meet.....hell, I'll just leave all kind of them lying around for you. It's so refreshing to see someone that can just let out all their joy at the simplest things

I loved the balloon and the edging analogy. I know a Dominant that uses that blowing up of the balloon quite effectively


softrayne replies on 9/1/2021 6:06 pm:
Heya, heya dreamy! YES, you should totally leave the balloons out. We can play with them together!! It'll be fun, we can laugh and pop, and pop and laugh.

*perks* a Dom you say? That likes balloons? Oh my.

hardtop4you 65M

9/1/2021 4:03 pm

You have now planted the subliminal perception of blowing, rabbit holes and how big the explosion can be. I don't think if we deny having a conscious conscience about it that it could possibly be masturbatory. I know you are pretty indeed rayne but maybe festive not as much as feisty.


softrayne replies on 9/1/2021 4:14 pm:
*laughs delightedly* I will gladly be feisty, pretty rayne, thank you!

alwaysassertive 63M

9/1/2021 5:12 pm

Well, I cant say you'd be an expensive date. Some whipped cream and a bag of balloons and we'd be good to go. Perhaps a little helium would add to the excitement. I'm flexible.


softrayne replies on 9/1/2021 5:16 pm:
Throw in a bottle of champagne, and I am all in!!! *L*

bossmanrob 64M
81 posts
9/1/2021 6:24 pm

just blow me!!!


softrayne replies on 9/1/2021 6:29 pm:
Do you inflate? What happens when you get to close to a pin?

InderioMinx 54F  
19798 posts
9/1/2021 6:38 pm

Should we ever be invited to the same party, I'll bring extra ballons just for you

Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short


softrayne replies on 9/1/2021 6:57 pm:
I didn't think it was possible to adore you any more Lady. And yet, it has happened

Greybrow 63M
625 posts
9/1/2021 7:33 pm

Well now I know what I will think about the next time I see balloons 🎈being blown up. I think think I'll be smiling.


softrayne replies on 9/1/2021 7:37 pm:
Wonderful Greybrow!!! Thank you for stopping by my blog and commenting *smiles* You should try popping them too!! Great fun that.

jenny14 75T  
90121 posts
9/1/2021 10:37 pm

rayne

I love your analogy It really is quite accurate


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A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


softrayne replies on 9/2/2021 6:07 pm:
oh jen, i love that photo! Pink is my favorite. I want to photoshop my face in the middle and use it as a screen saver. I'm glad you enjoyed the analogy.

Artschoolgrad 46M
8434 posts
9/2/2021 6:51 am

i will never look on balloons the same way again : )


softrayne replies on 9/2/2021 6:10 pm:
*smiles* I hope one day your at a party with balloons, and you chuckle to yourself, and think of this.

Ka__Boom 55M
16 posts
9/2/2021 7:15 am

I imagine sitting in a chair at a party, slowly blowing one up and NOT allowing you to pop it....................and making you wait. Bigger, bigger, tighter, tighter.

Would you want to pop it? Beg me to do so? Or beg me to stop?

Ballooooooons.......................


softrayne replies on 9/2/2021 6:31 pm:
So you want me to beg. *naughty grin* I can do that.

And it will always be beg to pop.

Ka__Boom 55M
16 posts
9/2/2021 11:17 am

..............and I....will never look at balloons the same way either!


softrayne replies on 9/2/2021 6:31 pm:
Oh I certainly hope not

palloncina 40F
31 posts
9/3/2021 7:14 am

Wow! I'm impressed, and love this topic!

Yes, two purposes, to enjoy for the aesthetic enjoyment and the pop!

Oh, my enjoyment has fallen into those two categories for years, as well as the anticipation factors mentioned above.

I won't continue about my experiences, but I love popping balloons, seeing them popped and experiencing many of the same feelings you've expressed. (I also enjoy teasing others by threatening to pop a balloon)

Of course to fully share this, one must have a similar frame of reference, so when is the party???


softrayne replies on 9/12/2021 8:59 am:
As soon as I know dearest, I shall let you know. For it wouldn't be a party without you! *hugs*

JohnnyLightning 65M  
9548 posts
9/3/2021 10:06 pm

I keep a spare balloons in my wallet, my glove compartment, an overnight bag, and everywhere you can imagine.

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.


softrayne replies on 9/5/2021 5:33 pm:
We are still talking about balloons here, right?

aliljaded 53F
8846 posts
9/5/2021 2:49 am

I absolutely love your analogy! Blowing and edging! Yes! Yes, I am one who loves to see a person blow a balloon up until it bursts in their face. I know it's a little sadistic, but hey? So am I.
Love this post, my friend. Hope to see you around the water cooler. x0x0.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


softrayne replies on 9/12/2021 9:01 am:
Thank you dearest *smiles* Do you think every maso, has a bit of the sadist in them, themselves? Entering the home stretch now, I'll be back and blog stalking you in no time!!!

palloncina 40F
31 posts
9/5/2021 7:27 am

Yes!

The question is: is the sadistic person the one who blows the balloon or is the sadism because the balloon pops in one's face?

I tend to be the one blowing to scare and torture others.


bubblezzz 46F
46 posts
9/5/2021 7:52 am

*blushes reading this, blood pressure and heartbeat escalating*

Loves popping balloons.


softrayne replies on 9/5/2021 5:35 pm:
Hello beauty! Thank you for stopping by my blog and commenting *smiles* It's always nice to meet someone who "get's it".

bubblezzz 46F
46 posts
11/7/2021 3:11 pm

More than gets it!!!


softrayne replies on 11/7/2021 4:32 pm:
Bubble darling!!! *pounces on you* I will be in touch soon! 12 days until the house closes, and I PROMISE we will chat


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