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So, I, when engaging in various forms of kinky fuckery, have been known to enjoy a bit of mild verbal humiliation. I have some terms/descriptions that I consider absolute no’s, line in the sand hard limits. Anything having to do with race, or weight, or intelligence are non-starters. There are a bunch of words I love though. Whore. Slut. Add a MY or MINE in front of that and *fans herself* wet panties galore. Then there is this one word (although I’m sure there must be others, I just haven’t heard them yet) that pulls in both camps so to speak. Bitch. I just can’t see to wrap my head around this one. On one hand…… I hate it. On the other hand…….I don’t hate it quite as much One the other hand……it makes me perk slightly….although I am loathe to admit it. I was called a bitch in scene. I literally went from red to green back to red, to yellow all in the space of under 2 seconds. And of course one must make the obligatory…..yes of course all about context, blah, blah, blah, but…………… Arghhh This one may take a while
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Yes... tossing the MY in front of it.... all. the. difference. Early on I had issues with calling a boy certain things... but clearly grew to understand the impact when I use it as in .... My little whore.. etc...   Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short  
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12/5/2021 2:46 pm |
Forbudt
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12/5/2021 3:01 pm |
Given time and with the right man you will learn to get wet when you here "You are my bitch" 
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12/5/2021 4:59 pm |
Don't you think the amount of humiliation you would endure might depend on the depth of the relationship and how much hearing that person say good girl would mean to your soul?
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Life's a bitch then you marry one  Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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As a thought from other side of coin, as a still growing Dom with breathing problems I struggle to even enjoy pics with gags let alone use one (except soaked panties that can be spit out if necessary) and absolutely no breathe play.
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12/5/2021 7:13 pm |
Miss sweet pussy sounds good to me since I don't know your name...Rick
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Definitely depends on who says such things and the circumstances. From someone I feel a deep connection with, I can take a lot, as I know it is not meant to really derogate me or to put me down. From a random person, even mildly humiliating things can be to much. And being told something like that during play is very different than during a heated discussion. With all that said I agree that references to race or intelligence are pretty much a no go for me. I know there are people who can drive on such things, but I'm not among them.
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Mistress and I had a long discussion of "titles" and words but once we understood the impacts and implications things ran very smoothly.
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I agree that it all comes down to context. For me, it is not a word that I use very often, if at all (I had to stop and really think hard about the last time I used it before commenting). I think, for me, the only time that I would use it would be during some kinky play session.
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hope all is well. havent seen you here for a while!
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7/31/2022 1:48 am |
Life's a bitch then you marry one 
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