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looking4fat 72T
472 posts
2/25/2023 9:06 am
The LTR Poll: Part 1 – How Long?

Many members state specifically that they are looking for a “Long Term Relationship. (Personally, I am amazed at the number of members in their 70’s and 80’s who say that. I don’t really expect to be alive and/or able to “Relate” for all that much longer. And I certainly have no desire to become someone’s “caretaker.”) Others merely imply the Long Term part. But what IS a Long Term Relationship? These polls are not aimed at getting a consensus but rather at an approximation of what members mean.
Part one looks at How Long a Long Term is. Part two will ask what sort of relationships we are all looking for.
Please add explanatory or elaborating comments after your votes.
How Long is “Long?”
‘til death do us part
at least 20 years
at least 15 years
at least 10 years
at least 5 years
at least 3 years
at least 2 years
at least 1 year
at least 6 month
as long as we can stand each other


My "gurl name" is Kate Coxuker. It is who i am and what i do.


looking4fat 72T

2/25/2023 9:46 am

i voted the last option because i have no idea how long my health will allow me to be a satisfactory sub. But if i AM able, i'd like to serve my Man for another 10 years or so,

My "gurl name" is Kate Coxuker. It is who i am and what i do.


rosaenaluin 65F
10842 posts
2/26/2023 11:56 am

Being kind of romantic about the LTR, i would say; to death do us part...
Being realistic about this whole LTR i would say, 20 years, who knows, if i will make it.. 20 years is a long way, away...


looking4fat 72T

2/26/2023 1:27 pm

    Quoting rosaenaluin:
    Being kind of romantic about the LTR, i would say; to death do us part...
    Being realistic about this whole LTR i would say, 20 years, who knows, if i will make it.. 20 years is a long way, away...
i'd say that You have a much better chance of making it another 20 years than i do.

My "gurl name" is Kate Coxuker. It is who i am and what i do.


looking4fat 72T

3/3/2023 4:08 am

i kind of wish that i had not included the last option because i really want to know what everyone thinks "Long Term" is. Number 10 could be as short as one evening!

My "gurl name" is Kate Coxuker. It is who i am and what i do.


looking4fat 72T

3/13/2023 2:19 am

Well, we finally have a few definitive votes. Ones that sort of surprise me. i expected the longer "Long Terms" to do better. Three and 5 years don't seem all that long to me. -- Unless i were in a "bad" relationship. Then even one year would seem like forever!

My "gurl name" is Kate Coxuker. It is who i am and what i do.



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