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BrookeStorme 35F
77 posts
5/23/2022 12:02 am
Best Place To Hook Up

Where is the best place to hook up for the first time?
Her House
His Crib
A Motel 8
A Regular Hotel Room
A Hotel Suite
Plan A Vacation and Wait
Outside In The Wild
In An Outside Body of Water
In a Pool
In a Vehicle


majicmike 64M  
6 posts
5/23/2022 2:05 am

U ready


looking4fat 70T
524 posts
5/23/2022 4:12 am

My favorite is a Sunday Morning Cock Worship Service here at my home.

My "gurl name" is Kate Coxuker. It is who i am and what i do.


sarabrown2 22F
323 posts
5/23/2022 4:51 am

I was always told, a public place like a well known coffee shop, you should be able to gauge your partner in the time it takes to drink a Latte. sara xx


Kitcatshadow1 55F
433 posts
5/23/2022 5:11 am

    Quoting sarabrown2:
    I was always told, a public place like a well known coffee shop, you should be able to gauge your partner in the time it takes to drink a Latte. sara xx
I totally agree with Sara, anywhere else for a first time meet is just asking for trouble.


DancingDom 72M
20675 posts
5/23/2022 5:59 am

Set up a place where you are most c0omfortable. Her own place is a place where she is comfortable, but unless she already knows the person very well and has an establish level of trust , it is way to risky to have a "dominant" over. Go to a bar, coffee house or restaurant, which your are not a regular at and just meet to get to know the basics first. Best not to plan any play on those first meetings.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


ebolivits7 62M  
6 posts
5/23/2022 9:38 am

I agree with neutral ground. Talk it over and pick a place you both think is good.
I usually like to go to a restaurant.


Will35 59M
221 posts
5/23/2022 9:45 am

Yes - a neutral public place like a restaurant. Or perhaps a theme or amusement park.


Arkangel_Fire 55M
681 posts
5/23/2022 9:57 am

The comfort and security must be agreed by both parties, I make my first appointment in the cafeteria of the hotel that I occupy, if we agree it can go up or not....


alwaysassertive 62M
2504 posts
5/23/2022 10:49 pm

I don't drink coffee but that sounds good to me. I won't meet someone I've only exchanged a few messages with anyway. It's not so much a trust issue, but knowing the person and establishing a connection first. By time I meet someone we've pretty much decided that things feel right, and a level of trust has been established through the course of a lot of communication. Lots of people have never made it to the in person stage with me because they blew it before that could happen. People you shouldn't meet will give themselves away if you give them some time. I base people on the content of who they are inside. If they are shallow, superficial or just plain stupid. I wont care how pretty or hot they are. I'm not going to be interested.


ridermantel 67M
8189 posts
5/23/2022 11:04 pm

A coffee shop.


bipantyboy63 59M
84 posts
5/24/2022 7:15 am

public place


meroudz74 47M
31 posts
5/24/2022 8:22 am

Vraiment, tu es attirant, mon cher, et s'il n'y avait pas d'océan entre nous ... J'aurais pu te rendre heureux une nuit


Subbyhubby2babe 52M

5/26/2022 5:24 am

I love the feeling of the air hitting my bare skin in the wild


oddboyt 19M
46 posts
5/26/2022 6:47 am

Who the hell plans a vacation for the first hookup?. that is over the top.


MissLoveParty1 40F  
41 posts
5/26/2022 2:23 pm

A nice hotel suite with a large group shower!


SlaveJack50 63M
1 post
6/1/2022 7:57 am

Love to play with each other gr8big4x and hangouts with me.


chastityslutcd 57T
88 posts
6/1/2022 10:25 am

i like to go where the big dicks are.


tobbeaches 66M
2 posts
6/4/2022 12:29 pm

being its only saturday we have a whole day to get aquanted than


sugen0 63M
45 posts
6/6/2022 12:04 am

i dont know , but i public place is best i think


BDSMbedroomslave 44T
28 posts
6/6/2022 10:18 am

I set up a safe call, with a friend who knows about this lifestyle, someone I can trust will call to make sure things are ok, who isn't going to be fooled by a text message (which can be sent by anyone) who will insist on speaking to me in person on the phone, and if I don't or they refuse, that friend calls the cops.

See I always insist on a safe place to meet, a safe place in public, and these days most places have some form of CCTV which proves you were there, and proves whoever you met there, was there. I insist the other person gives me their ID, this request happens in the correspondance, before I've even gotten to the safe place in public. They refuse, I don't leave the safe place with them and I call my friend.

In some circumstances, my friend will insist I stay there until they pick me up, incase the guy turns out to be a total prick, and tried something once I leave the safe place. It might sound melodramatic, it might sound over the top, but your safety is all that is important. Look after number one, always.


MistressMagi0 31F
7 posts
6/7/2022 6:55 am

some people my think planning a vacation for hook-up is over the top
to me thats the safest way to achive discretion and distractions, you can actually be your very self or check your inner self in a new place with a new friend/lover
its all about exploring and i like adventure


tastetester61 60M
1200 posts
6/7/2022 10:50 pm

I've done the vacation thing, twice now, and both times were great. We discussed a number of way to check on each other, and even though we were from opposite sides of the world, we had a fantastic time.

From what I can see from the first few lines of your profile, you're a domme. Such a shame, you seem to have my sense of adventure.


hightension10 66M
101 posts
6/22/2022 5:28 am

Usually a coffee shop to begin with. safe and gives you time to evaluate each other . then what works for both..


1Irishman317 63M
22 posts
6/23/2022 2:51 am

On my..Boat...All weekend....Ready?


Velvet_263 59F
231 posts
6/26/2022 2:26 pm

Coffee or dinner with a safe call. First meeting for play, when I walked in he made me call my safe call. She then called back a couple hours later.


substargazer401 32F
2 posts
6/27/2022 11:07 am

i think is the man's crib that makes sense a lot . well thats my opinion tho !!


fidellis09 43M
20 posts
6/29/2022 3:53 pm

Very good question


UrFuckToy069 56M
184 posts
6/30/2022 6:24 pm

Hold on a second ...

What does "hook-up" in this context mean?

Does it mean "meet" for the first time and get to know more about each other's likes/dislikes and start learning about each others compatibility ...

OR ...

Does it mean "hook-up" as in connecting body parts, exchanging a fluid or two, and figuring out compatibility later?

Because this guy right here, writing this has always been about compatibility first and figuring out the physical parts later ....

Just sayin' ...


Bowdown2me123 51M
4 posts
7/1/2022 2:38 am

Hello brook. You are very Pretty


NaughtyMan4ALady 64M
4 posts
7/1/2022 1:47 pm

    Quoting MistressMagi0:
    some people my think planning a vacation for hook-up is over the top
    to me thats the safest way to achive discretion and distractions, you can actually be your very self or check your inner self in a new place with a new friend/lover
    its all about exploring and i like adventure
I would think a vacation would be perfect as you obviously have a passion for travel, meeting new people and exploring new places. Come to Toronto any time.


Amandabbw2 32F
1 post
7/2/2022 3:09 pm

I’m me your number


NaughtyMan4ALady 64M
4 posts
7/3/2022 6:24 pm

Since you were in to findom, I am really surprised that the bank is not an option.



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