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likesmatures 55M
7257 posts
6/15/2024 3:36 pm
My thoughts on service..taken from an FL group..I think you'll like it

It rare for me to really mention anything from the other side..

But I thought this was worth talking about.

It is a Female Led Relation group by the way and they want things like tea parties,gatherings,cfnm,nude servers,etc.
Things your boy is actually very cool with

I find it ironic that alot of people wish to head up an event,secure a venue,worry about the cost,selling tickets,the food or volunteers to set up,tear down,clean up etc..

But the one thing people came to see,experience.,the cfnm,The naked servers..


any dude...

Literally any dude,unvetted, could be a Pet
er file,..that simply volunteers to get naked and serve..

I Kidd you not

Like you literally put all your time,energy,maybe money into an event...
Then you just let a rando stranger walk in

And serve???

Now I'm told it's not exactly that...there might be a meet and greet and x minutes of training..

But basically a stranger...a dude..any dude..

Now naked

I said before you plan a event you really need to start treating the servers as an equal part of the equation. They need to be as important as the venue

Now of course they can't hire real waiters,staff for bdsm events.

But I proposed the solution is to start a male serving that they can over see,properly train and use at group events.

I feel a staff of 6 to 10 regular slaves would be enough.

I see this as a huge advantage for alot of reasons

1. It takes a burden off the shoulders of those that head these events. They no longer have to beg,plead men to volunteer..
And hope..yeah they actually show up.

Can you imagine setting up an event,securing a venue,bringing in food,getting the guest list,setting up..

Only to get totally ghosted by males who volunteered to serve.

and then turning in a panic into to any adult with a dick
And asking them if they could get ..


Now you'll have a group of men you can count on.

And before anyone says this sounds odd...

There are other local groups that hold dinners and ask for slave volunteers..
So this concept isn't new. No doubt the same people volunteer to serve.

you eliminate the risk one gets from the unknown male element that simply volunteers. The rando..calrician

3. One gets a better quality of server,the guest gets a better experience.

4. Plus since this isn't a f emdom group or a Female supremacy group. It's female lead
..your going to have diverse opinions of what events should be and how people should behave..

Your also gonna have a diverse audience attending these's not a room full of Dommes and a server..

More like Dommes ,Masters,female slaves,vanilla folks,Dommes w sub hubs,dudes,the lgbtq,etc.etc..not sure who might attend

A dedicated group of servers helps keep the focus strictly on the service it shouldn't matter whom he is serving..esp naked...Masters,a hubby,a gay guy, the trans community etc..

I think a dedicated group of servers also helps the group as a whole..

The Domme doesn't have to feel guilty and press her slave into service. She/ he can attend as a couple and enjoy themselves.

I also feel more males will attend these events if certain roles are taken..
There is no need for them to undress,no pressure for them to serve or preform
They can just chill,enjoy the event,see if serving really is for them..
And if's pressure..other males got this..

Lastly I feel a huge advantage is not everyone is on the same level..
No matter if that is the lifestyle or a simple concept like clothed female/ nude males..

Some people don't feel comfortable in a big group setting but might feel safer with cfnm in a private gathering,setting.

Aunt May and uncle irv may be into FLR in an online group..but aren't comfortable at a big group event..

They may entertain the concept of a nude male server in a smaller venue though..maybe more private setting like their house .

Now your telling me aunt May is gonna post in the group that she is looking for male volunteers..most likely that would embarrasse the fuck out of her..
And she or irv aren't gonna hit up random men in the group or place an outside ad..

But if there was men that provide this service to the group
May is more likely to contact the groups owner or mod asking about these men.
The May and Irvs of this world have better access now and feel more like part of the group.
They finally get to experience being served

I feel it's all about ones comfort level...why should a small venue or house visit be any different than an event..
If I willing to serve a big venue...then why would I turn down May and Irv..

I feel the lifestyle comes in alot of forms and exist on alot of comfort levels..

But yikes I think it's whiskey tango to let just any dude volunteer ..

likesmatures 55M
4955 posts
6/15/2024 3:36 pm

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