The denial of your own pleasure
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Posted:Apr 13, 2024 6:33 am
Last Updated:Apr 14, 2024 4:55 am 453 Views
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I find it funny how we still conform to societal norms..
Sex to a lot of men is still..
Tab A into slot B...
And as much as I'll bash men for living in the 1800s when it comes to sex,sensations,physical touch
Women aren't alot better....
Are you still just a pump and dump
Have you really explored your body and the wonderful sensations it can produce..
It's funny how a lot of people seek out others to
Deny them pleasure
When they
Are already doing it
To themselves..
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The beginning of the soft men era
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Posted:Apr 13, 2024 5:39 am
Last Updated:Apr 14, 2024 4:56 am 433 Views
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Now I know this isn't everyone's cup of tea..
Nor have I drunk the koolaid..
But I do appreciate the humor found in these.." soft guy era" vids on tiktok..
It basically is men outright mirroring the outrageous demands women put on men in the dating world.
Such as he must be 6 foot tall and make six figures..
The men fire right back with..
They have entered their " soft men phase " and realise they deserve better..they are top shelf men...they now will only date women 5'9 and up that make 6 figures,etc..
Now add on ridiculous requirements like..
One dude went to his cabinets and pulled out his skin care routine...claiming he was a high value man and any woman that wishes to date him now must pay for...his hair,his lotions,etc.
( basically parodying women found in other tiktok vids that demand men pay for their hair,their nails, their grooming products just to go out on a date.
I bring up the soft guy era because I do believe some of this has bleed over into the lifestyle..
My ex Domme is the perfect example of an independant boss woman that doesn't need no man..
To which I am not mocking..
But unfortunately this lifestyle,this boss girl attitude lead to a lot of isolation..not wanting help,not wanting someone in their bed.
This attitude also leads to the person being super picky and inflating their own self worth..
Basically demanding such a " super" man....that no man could fill the role...not even a chad like your boy
In her case..your 68 yrs old...I think if prince charming was coming down the road,he'd be here by now
I'm not bitter..I'm trying to make the point...
That soft women,soft men do exist...and aren't a parody.
It is a fact that on dating sites like bumble, 90 perhumble, women go after 10 percent of the men.
And I do believe this is also reflected in the lifestyle.
Anyway to wrap this up..
There are grains of truth in these soft guy era parodies...
Like no person is worth simping over
Appreciate your own self worth
And focus on you..build your empire
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So do you have a coming to Jesus meeting w co workers...when your alone
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Posted:Apr 1, 2024 5:55 pm
Last Updated:Apr 1, 2024 6:13 pm 3052 Views
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I ask this because tomorrow
Our office manager wants to do a ride along with me so she gets a better understanding how I scan in the product.
???? And she has really been pushing for this???
Bigger question..
Do you use the opportunity to guage their real feelings....
Right now there is no camera in the truck.
I'm curious as to what she really thinks of this company..
Your thoughts
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Is being a " girl boss" a good thing..you opinion
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Posted:Mar 30, 2024 8:32 am
Last Updated:Mar 31, 2024 7:16 am 3219 Views
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Now don't get me wrong..
I'm completely comfortable with the ideal that a woman doesn't need a man,can be completely self sufficient..
Just like society has finally caught up and realised...there is nothing wrong with a single man passed the age of 30.
It doesn't make him.omg." gay"..it doesn't make him a man baby..
Or a bar creeper..and it certainly doesn't mean he can't be an effective manager..
Like he needs a wife so he " settles down".
( c ant have perves in the office..meanwhile the married CEO is sleeping around)
But in saying so I've seen videos where women will admit that they've been self sufficient for so long..
That they literally don't want anyone helping them..they see it as an insult..
And they literally don't want anyone in her bed..
The one woman literally said..." ick" to that thought..
Now I know these sorta videos can be sorta incell..
But I also see some grains of truth and somethings my exe Domme did that now make sense..
Like hello I'm a slave..we do things..yet she was such the girl boss type that she outright refused my offer to do anything.
And yeah I never got in her bed after 2 months of emails..
My question is do you think some people take being a " girl boss" too literally..
And doesn't it cockblock your chance to really..
Find?
Hell let's just say put in an effort to look for someone.
Your thoughts...If your that independent...do you really desire anyone..
If anything I think you want a relationship because everyone else has one..
And you feel you deserve one..
But on your terms
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And down the other path I ran
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Posted:Mar 29, 2024 7:08 pm
Last Updated:Mar 30, 2024 5:11 am 3293 Views
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I took a members advice..
And did not write that last email to my ex..
I think silence speaks volumes...
Kinda funny how I was willing to give a lot to make this work
And in the end I thought it wasn't worth it..
I try not to get jaded about women..
But I find what my ex wanted was the same bs that a lot of women want..
That prince charming..
And yeah I'm not him...
And he isn't coming.
So I not only went down the other path
I ran
And spent the whole day off...just lifting at the gym..
Funny how that is more therapeutic..
Than arguing with a woman over the stupidest of shit..
Fyi...I worked the same job for 21 yrs...been with my roommates 14yrs...
And never have argued with anyone the way I argued with her..
It was almost like she needed to fight
???..
In maybe 2 months of exchanging emails we must of had 8 or 9 no talking for days fights..
And with this last arguement I said I'm done.,
She went from having what she desired..
To a man just walking away
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Did you read my profile??? Did you ever play that game with bozos
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Posted:Mar 27, 2024 4:41 am
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2024 4:53 am 3477 Views
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I curious if you ever played the..
Did you read my profile??....then use the code word in your reply game..
Just to distance yourself from the bots,losers,weirdo and people that don't even take a second to get to know you..
I bring this up because my mailbox is flooded with letters from men on that other site..
I'm talking swamp land flooded..
And I'm starting to think maybe 30 to 40 percent are bots trying to get me to chat and spend my real world money on the site..
So I simply asked men in my profile to tell me where they are from( in their reply)..
And nope none did??
So I wondered if you ever did this..
And did it work???
And I'm not saying I'm the bell of the ball...But yeah there are some real ugly bros on this site...
So I think a lot of the replies are real
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So with your final email to a ex do you...
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Posted:Mar 26, 2024 7:36 pm
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2024 4:53 am 3606 Views
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Just curious..
My ex Domme finally wrote the dear John email..
After I refused to email her back 7 days ago.
No I wasn't being petty or childish.
I've stated numerous times to this woman that I didn't wish to argue..
And yeah she did..we argued
And I said fuck it.
Hence the reason I got so depressed
Anyway my question is do you write her back and put her on blast or just walk away.
We had a lot of issues and she was constantly bringing up my past ( as women are known to do).
Not once did I talk about her behavior
But I can easily write pages of why we aren't good together...highlighting not only my actions but her past actions as well.
And I could easily blast her..
So do you?
And I'm not talking about being rude,ignorant or mean to her.
I m trying to explain her behavior...
And what I really think she is trying to have,achieve in a relationship...
Won't mesh...with me
Cause...I think she is trying to recreate a pseudo FLR she had years ago with her ex hubby.
But try to now explain that
To her
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Should there even be the terms gay,bi,straight
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Posted:Mar 26, 2024 5:03 am
Last Updated:Mar 26, 2024 6:40 am 3732 Views
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As much as sooooo many wish to create new little categories to label their sexuality/ gender.
I'm guessing it so the current " it" actress in Hollywood can be brave and come out as...as bi,gay ..or they/ them etc..
That and every other woman on tiktok
I propose the opposite..
Let's just eliminate categories ..
And this isn't me being homophobic
( duh..I prefer dudes...hope that isn't a sticker shock).
What I'm saying is why should a desire define a person..
Sucking a dick d oesnt make you gay...or omg..so worse..that grand canyon of desire we call..
Being bi...
Like wtf is even being bi...
And honestly there are very few real bi people..
That honestly don't see gender in their attraction to another.
Let's be honest..your a straight guy that likes dick..
Why label it? Why define it? The more we put our selves into special boxes..
The more it seperates us..when honestly it's quite common and normal
And yeah guys being into dicks have been going on for centuries...
Without labels..hell...in some cultures they are their greatest warriors, heroes ..
But either way..it doesn't make you bi or gay..
It's akin to saying you went to a city's heritage fest and now your African or Irish or Jamaican .
Please stop
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The dating world..and how weird it is for a guy like me...
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Posted:Mar 25, 2024 6:51 pm
Last Updated:Mar 26, 2024 7:12 pm 3692 Views
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So yeah I won't bore you with some story about going on bumble or tinder..
And 95 percent of the women wanting 10 percent of the men on there..
Like hey..that's no joke..tinder actually tried to sell men a " package" for x amount of dollars a month so they could be in that ten percent..
I will instead talk about my niche..
I..duh..like older men and couples..not a sticker shock hopefully to anyone..
But the " dating site" called manzone...was so....odd..
Like suddenly I was the bell of the ball...it seemed like every dude there not only looked at my profile..
But wrote to me
???
Now I'm not brad pitt...but I'm not chopped liver either..
At first I thought it was a scam..or scammers..or the site using bots to contacts members so they would spend real world money..
I felt for a moment..being real..like a chick...and all the freebies these sites offer women...we're suddenly mine..
Tons of dudes emailing me
It cost nothing to read their letters..
And they gave you like 150 coins when you signed up..
Each reply cost you x amount...but they give you a daily freebie spin for a chance at freebie coins..
Anyway the odd thing most of these guys have no profile..
And from their emails...it seems like the term gay or top never pops up..
But rather me being single...seems to be a big deal..like suddenly my tattoo really is A hidden treasure map
And from a few emails I gather a good percentage of these men are married??
Hence the reason I'm the lunch special..
The weird thing is I don't want to pay for this site..I just wanna look around and maybe there is a guy worth talking to..
Burn through the coins the site gave me for signing up.
And then get off
So I don't have a lot of time or..lol coin to play detective..
Unless I give a dude my email addy and I ask offline.
But I find it weird how bent out of joint some of these men were..
If one dared to look at their profile and not email...
Then your a complete azzhat that doesn't find them attractive. They literally pouted and wrote me that
( or maybe I'm just looking around and don't want to waste the coins freely given to me by the site)
Replies cost in game coins
I also found it weird when a few of the guys refered to the members as " ladies"..
Like the ladies here will have a fun time falling all over you
I have no issue with cross dresser,transsexuals or those in transition.
Yet I think it's kinda cringe to refer to gay men by those terms.
I think it perpetuate an outdated stereotype of what a gay man is ..
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Either way...an odd experience..I've seen other dating sites were men were lazy and just didn't bother filling out their profile.
I've never seen a site where no one filled out a profile???
And I certainly don't want to give the impression that mature men or couples were odd.
Just this site..
The irony is would I meet up with a guy from this site?
I think yes.
But the site is odd...it's not grindr....it's not pof...it's not a chat site..
So is it for hookups..actual dating..erotic chats..
I still don't know..
And I think most members really don't know
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I am anger..I am rage...and I literally drowned in depression today
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Posted:Mar 23, 2024 6:34 pm
Last Updated:Mar 23, 2024 6:58 pm 4094 Views
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I will not bore you..
But this wave of depression literally washed me away..
I didn't not know I could ever be hurt
So hard..
That one crack and I emotionally let someone in..
And she literally drowned me.
And my rage,my anger...
Is gone.
I'm am no longer Mister E...I am just E ( Neil Gaimen dc comic reference).
I sit bro
Ken
At the end of times
Just a toy
Harmless
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