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INTRODUCTION
How should I as a Dominant treat my submissive girl? This is certainly a reasonable question, particularly for someone who may be just beginning to learn about D/s and submissive relationships. So let us see if I can provide a reasonable answer.
A Dominant should treat his submissive girl with respect. Mind that you do not confuse respect with deference. When I say treat the submissive girl with respect, I am not saying treat her as if she were in charge. Respect the girl as what she is, a submissive.
In other words, I do not hold the submissiveness of the girl in contempt. She is not lesser or weaker or bad for being a submissive. She is a human being and every bit the equal of the Dominant. Her submissiveness does not make her trash. Her submissiveness makes her a treasure.
Remember the golden rule, Dominants. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. As you want to be treated, so treat others. The Dominant wants his submissive girl to respect him and his authority. The Dominant, therefore, should respect his girl and her submissiveness.
Before you/we go any further I need you to know that if you are shallow enough to be looking for a Dominant, of which I have experience of who is of a certain age, then I recommend that you venture no further.
In recent times my Profile has shown my age as anything from 39 to 99 years old (neither of which I am). I have changed it regularly in the past for reasons that my experience has taught me, namely that if age is really important then your mindset in submission is a compromised for you before you start. As I said: this is my experience.
If you can get past the fact that I am truly into middle age, as my Profile pics show, you will also observe that I have retained much of the physical conditioning of my early adult life when you look at my slim and muscular physique, through carefully managing my health and fitness, and now wish to take time to enjoy myself, in travelling and spending time exploring my passions. I only use photographs that are current, so look twice and accept that age is only a number and doesn't define to much the time we have on this planet before fate decides otherwise. I am not a Richard Geer or George Clooney look-a-like, but I am an intelligent, confident, personable and totally in control man, who has learned much from life’s experiences. I do not do aggressive. I will prefer to take the relaxed high ground if faced with aggression. I'm a cheerful, sociable, responsible, open-minded man. I would like to be with a trustworthy and reliable young submissive. On the subject of humour I enjoy the still very well done English type of situation comedy, all loosely based upon ridiculing everyday life. I am still a real romantic. I don't want to ruin the start of our relationship by patronize you to win favour, because you deserve my honesty. You are the one staking the most on the success of our future together.
I'm a bit of a hooligan, because I love to drive high performance supercars, mainly on the track, but when legal also occasionally on the road. I'm a member of the Sporting Bears Club. You can google that if interested.
I am aware that there are aspects of the D/s relationships I have enjoyed over the last two decades in the Lifestyle that have not been truly fulfilling whilst for a significant part of that time I have continued with my business full time, so with renewed energy and a determination to spend more time to fully focus on my own needs as a Dom I look to help a new girl to grow in the lifestyle, while I mentor her. I also plan to take this next girl for the long-term, and cherish and make her an integral part of my daily life.
My Ideal Person.
First I suggest you reconcile what you're looking for with what I offer. I am looking for a highly sexual dynamic with a a brave girl, who understands that great sex including lengthy foreplay doesn't usually fit well with a highly emotional Vanilla courtship. There will always be room in my dynamic for me to look after the well being of my girl, but above all I base my offer to you on me being an intelligent thinker and great listener. You will see and feel that I focus very highly on communicating with my girl and ensuring all her desires in respect of her chosen one are fulfilled to the very best of my abilities.
I will respect always your hard limits in the kinky lifestyle we will share, although I will push your soft limits for erotic pain as far as your mind will accept.
I am a strict but kind and caring Dominant, whose girl will enjoy a very full and interesting time away from the kinky dynamic that I will prepare.
I am somewhat sadistic in play, but this is often limited to simple ways of humiliating my little girl or overpowering her physically for rough sex or confining her to enforce discipline. Of course I am not an unselfish person. On the contrary, as a Dominant in control of my girl, I can be very selfish.
This does not mean, however, that I am selfish to the point where I would lead you on into a relationship where your eyes were not fully open to the facts.
I confirm that I seek that one last life-long highly sexual relationship full of kink and variety.
I can only say that as a member of the male sex, I know about most men.
I count myself not to be part of the norm.
I tired years ago of the inability of most men to talk, like women do, openly and honestly about their feelings to each other. God forbid that a male friend might be honest about his failings. Better to brag about all and everything that makes him look big.
By profession I have spent a lifetime listening to the hidden truths in order to find the solution to a problem that baffles others.
This has given me a rare, I think, insight into the value of openness.
I am sure that you will allow me not to bore you, yet any way, with what I do professionally, but it has brought out of me I believe an inbuilt skill in dealing with any and all kinds of problem solving in the simplest sense.
I am a very balanced individual and nothing is fake about me. I guess I never got the selfie itch, so smiling at the camera doesn't naturally come to me. It's probably a generation thing Lol.
I am a very happy person, so don't be fooled by seeing a serious face in my profile pics, because there are many pics from private moments where I smile in pleasure, that will stay private and I choose not to put on here.
Where I am serious it is about my responsibilities to treat any submissive I chat with as she deserves with utmost respect and kindness. It's how I am.
As I explain in my Profile I don't feel or react as the typical middle aged male, and have lots of feedback from people who honestly think I look and act in everything overall young for my age.
An added note for those who may be interested in the possibility of becoming my 24/7 live-in girl: I am divorced, have lived entirely alone for some years, and won't disappear for whole days using some false truth about needing to attend to important business, because I don't have a wife hidden away anywhere who I cheat upon.
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My Ideal Person:
Looking for an experienced or newby submissive.
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