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II am a Dom/Master seriously seeking the right sub/slave (preferably in the general Phoenix area) to own and love in a LTR. Women only – I am not at all bi. I know this is long, but please read my entire profile before responding to prevent wasting time for either of us.
I do not believe being Dominant is an excuse for being a selfish, irresponsible jerk. A true Master’s primary focus is always on protecting his slave’s safety, health, and general well being. BDSM is not abuse, but a special form of loving that meets the needs of both parties.
I genuinely get off on observing and controlling my partner’s responses. The more aroused I can make you, the greater the turn-on for me. I am into orgasm control / denial – pushing you to frustrating heights of horniness before finally permitting a truly explosive climax.
I recognize and respect the crucial difference between erotic pain and bad pain. And I realize the dividing line varies with the individual sub / slave. My focus is on obtaining the most erotic responses I can rather than insisting on specific activities or intensity. The results are more important than the process.
Everything must be fully consensual. I believe in discussing things and negotiating limits right at the start to make sure we will both be satisfied in our relationship.
I love “tie up & tease” (obviously), lots of oral (I enjoy giving almost but not quite as much as receiving), anal, bondage, flogging, long, slow hand jobs, fingering pussy, and many other things. My hard limits include anything with a high risk of injury. I like to inflict erotic pain. I do not have any desire to inflict harm.
I prefer to keep my sub/slave naked whenever practical, while I usually remain fully dressed (but possibly unzipped).
I do not choose to share my slave with other men, although a threesome with another woman would appeal to me, if you are bi.
Do not be concerned about my age. Age is just a number, and I strongly suspect that the calendar is lying about how many years it has been. I don’t feel my age, and a number of people have told me I don’t look it. My health is good, and being retired, I will have plenty of time to devote to my sub / slave. And I have no interest in sports, so I won’t ignore you for that.
My previous slave (and wife) was with me for 20 years. Unfortunately, she developed some serious health problems, and the last couple of years she couldn’t do much for me, but my love for and commitment to her kept me at her side and I took care of her until the end. She passed away a little over 2 years ago,
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Min Ideal Person:
Superficial issues such as race, nationality, or age are irrelevant to me. Of course, I’d prefer physical attractiveness, but I am more concerned with who you are on the inside, than the other packaging. Somewhat overweight would not put me off, but obesity is a turn-off.
It would be a plus if you are bi, but not mandatory.
I want someone who is honest, trustworthy, loyal, responsible, and with a good sense of humor. I offer the same qualities in reutun.
Single biological women ONLY. No one who is married or is seriously involved with someone else.
NO DOMMES. I am not interested in the submissive role at all.
NO MEN, even as part of a couple.
NO “gender benders” This is not a moral judgement, just a matter of my personal taste and not what I am into.
I strongly prefer someone local. Unfortunately, there are many phonies and scam artists on this site, I will not send any money to anyone for relocation or any other purpose before a face to face meeting. It also makes sense to check out our in-person “chemistry” before making any commitments. When I make a commitment, I intend to keep it.
I do not text except for emergencies. I don’t like on-line chat. These are the worst possible ways to get to know someone. Hastily typed brief responses can not reveal personality, and make it very, very easy for phonies to wear a false face. I prefer to start with emails, where we can think about what we want to say, and “spread out” some, then proceed to voice phone calls before arranging an actual face to face meeting.
I would prefer to start with a trial session, but if you are cautious, I understand, and I don’t have a problem meeting in public to begin with.
I am very serious about all I have said here, and hope to hear from you very soon.
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