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I am a Dom interested in exploring possibilities in leather, D/s, and BD. Over the years, I have had many sexual fantasies but seldom (for various reasons) never got very far exploring them. The time, I believe, is now right to "play". My late wife was a wonderful lover yet very vanilla. I did not press her beyond her limits with my fantasies as I valued our married life more than my sexual fantasies. So, you have a first clue as to my personality. I value relationships and respect my partners limits.
In public, you will find me to be very vanilla (conservative even) and perhaps somewhat modest. I am educated (a PhD chemist though retired) and have interests in science and history. I regularly play chess and enjoy science fiction (books and movies). During the football season, I watch both the college and professional games.
Behind closed doors, I can be aggressive yet gentle, adventurous yet not fool hardy. Caring and nurturing. Very enthusiastic and imaginative. The pleasure of my partner is important to me. Bringing my partner to orgasms (forced or delayed) is in itself a very satisfying sexual experience.
A primary interest to me is the role of leather and latex in my fantasies. I suspect I have had a fetish for leather since an early age. I'd like to find a partner who can help me explore that fetish. Latex is more a curiosity. As it seems to be almost synonymous with leather, I am open minded to exploring that. My fantasies almost always include gloves but also boots, masks. hoods, and other leather or latex apparel. After some thought, I realize that I am primarily a dominant in bed yet enjoy when my partner takes charge from time to time. As a Dom, I fantasize my partner in leather restraints, gloves, and a hood. While she lays at my mercy, I fantasize bringing her to climaxes in different ways. Then when I release her, we caress and kiss while I smell and feel the leather.
Recently, I have ventured into shibari and rope bondage. I very much want to find a sub who would patiently allow me to practice and develop my techniques.
As for my dislikes and turn-offs, I will not degrade or humiliate my partner, in public or in private (unless agreed upon). She is a human being who deserves respect as I do. Hard limits include scat, blood, and leaving marks.
My partner, of course, will have her own fantasies and we would work together to satisfy those as best as I can. Pleasing my partner is a significant turn-on for me.
If someone is interested after reading this, I fully expect to spend some time in a neutral safe space so we can get to know each other. Online chat is great to start, especially in this time of the COVID-19 epidemic. Let me know if you would like to meet at an event. Then perhaps we can meet up for a coffee or lunch. Then we can see where the journey leads from there.
== Results from bdsmtest.org April 26, 2021 ==
100% Rigger
98% Dominant
86% Degrader
83% Master/Mistress
75% Brat tamer
74% Sadist
67% Experimentalist
66% Non-monogamist
59% Primal (Hunter)
48% Rope bunny
38% Switch
38% Vanilla
36% Voyeur
35% Exhibitionist
31% Owner
18% Submissive
14% Primal (Prey)
13% Daddy/Mommy
7% Brat
5% Masochist
1% Pet
0% Boy/Girl
0% Degradee
0% Slave
0% Ageplayer
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My Ideal Person:
My partner would be feminine, kinky, adventurous, and enthusiastic. In real life, they would be an intelligent, independent woman. We'd enjoy socializing, exploring the local community for restaurants and fun. We would engage in conversations over movies, books, culture, history, and science. We would support each other and care for each other.
Behind closed doors, I will lead her on an exploration of pleasure and eroticism. We will explore our fetishes, kinks, and fantasies. Her pleasure will be pleasing me. My pleasure will be satisfying her when and how I wish.
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